Two people can love each other deeply and still hold fundamentally different views about family,…

Two people can love each other deeply and still hold fundamentally different views about family, money, fidelity, children, or the future. Love can support difficult conversations, but it cannot erase conflicts in areas where neither person can or should compromise. Do not ask only, “Do we love each other?” Also ask, “Can we build a life in which neither of us must lose ourselves?”